1) Before watching the TED talk, I already knew that Nigeria was just like any other country in the world and it is most definitely not like what many stereotypes make it seem. Nigeria, like many other places has cities and homes with people living in them. I also knew that Nigeria, even though it like many other places had things like cities, had a lot of poverty due to their form of government. This is the second time I have watched this particular TED talk, so I do not really have much that I already did not know.
2) "All of these stories make me who I am" (12:58) I chose this quote because I believe that a lot of stories in a persons life is what makes them who they are. When people go through different things, it shapes different opinions and thoughts. Just as if someone were to be mean or bully, the person they bully at the moment is broken but later on becomes stronger.
"But to focus on only the negative things will flatten the story" ( 13:05) I chose this quote because I believe that to focus on the bad things and self pitying yourself is not a healthy way to live. You want to revel in the different opportunities that life has blessed you with. Of course, this is not to say that a person should not reflect on different experiences in their life that were not particularly postitive, because reflecting is also healthy. Bottling things up is not a good thing either. But anyways, looking at things with only one side with literally flatten out what you can see. It is like looking through glasses to see better. When you see better things are more clear, but when you dont wear glasses, things are misconstrued.
"Her position to me as an african was a patronizing well-meaning pity" (4:58) Here, Mrs Adichie is explaining about her college roommate, who prior she had said had asked about the kind of "tribal" music she listened to and was very sad when Adichie played a Mariah Carey cassette. Here this shows how close minded the american culture can be. For our whole lives we are raised to believe that Africa is not a civilized continent and that many people still live in tribes. This is not true! We believe that there is not much money in Africa and that being African is something to pity, not be proud of.
3) It is important to look at other sides of stories because seeing only one side is very close minded. (And IB learners are suppose to be open minded thinkers!) A good example that I connect with is in real life and rumors that stir around the school because there was only one side of a story. Someone, like a friend of mine, comes to me complaining about something that went down in the hallway. They explained what happened to them in their perspective, how they felt and things like that. But if I were to talk to the other person, there is almost a guarantee they will tell the story completely differently! It is really how people perceive things and how they emotionally feel about other things.
4) A time that I experienced a culture much different from my own was when I turned 10. My brother has a friend whose parents are originally from Malaysia and they celebrate Chinese New Year. My parents are very open to trying new cultures, so when they invited us, we of course decided to go. But as soon as I got there I felt very out of place, especially by the smell and look of all the different foods. I did not know if I would like any of them because a lot of the stuff was fish or rice (and I personally am not a fan of fish OR rice!) My mom and I said that we would try the stuff together, but I will admit, when we did try them, I did not like them and I still do not like them, but at least I tried! Also during Chinese New Year I learned that this is a time to reflect and pray, so every hour they pray to Buddha which was kind of interesting! I guess I never realized that! I am so use to New Years here and how everyone just parties and has a good time with friends.
5) Living in another culture or abroad will cause people to challenge what they believe because it is a whole new culture by which they are not use to. Many times people must learn to adapt quickly when they enter these cultures. Like in the show The King and I by Rogers and Hammerstein s, Anna Leonowens states they she has lived in Siam for over a year now and has learned and gotten to know the people of Siam. This cant be more true! It is a great learning experience. The King and I is the perfect example of challenging beliefs. The king brings Anna to Siam in order to bring Western Culture to Siam, but the King is very stuck in his old ways. Anna challenges him to look beyond what has always been and see other things in the world, which in turn makes him more wiser and slightly less stubborn.